4 - We Are Who We Are

The problem is...

Do you ever tried to be someone you’re not? To do something you’re not used to? Do you ever feel like you’re somebody else? I think everyone does. That is the problem is this world. Everything looks to be unreal. Fake is the new trend and everyone seems to be in style. It is very hard to be ourselves because we are all afraid of what will others say. I might say ‘who cares?’ But all I see is everyone does.

People think you’re crazy if they don’t understand what you’re saying. They’ll judge you through your outside look. We are all busy thinking ‘How do I look?’, ‘Do I look pretty?’, ‘Did I do the right thing?’ or ‘Did I say the precise word?’ The problem is, whatever we do, whether it is right or wrong, people will judge us. So instead of pondering what they will say to us, why don’t we try to just do our own thing? Have your self-confidence. Confidence is not ‘they will like me’. Confidence is ‘I’ll be fine if they don’t’. Always be the first-version of yourself than trying to be the second-version of somebody else. Let them judge you but always prove them wrong. Let them say you’re not worth it but let them watch where you have ended.

Have the rule in your life where the first rule is never be number 2. Get the logic? We can be number one in our own ways without humiliating others. Never dull your shine for somebody else. You’re imperfections make you beautiful, they make who you are. Don’t sit and just let things happen. Go out and make things happen. People might shoot you their words or cut you with their hate, but still like air, you will rise. Remember that the more they hate the more you rise. Enjoy you are. Don’t hate yourself for not being like them. Your weirdness makes you unique. You are not born to fit. You are born to be yourself.

                The problem is we think over what the problem is. You shouldn't compare yourself with others, because no one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you. You shouldn't want to be better than everybody else; you should want to be better than you ever thought you could be. It's better to be yourself and have no friends, than it is to be like your friends and have no self. Always accept and feel comfortable with your flaws, that way no one can ever use them against you.